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Navigating the Fourth Trimester: Tips and Personal Reflections with Gemma Spinks, Founder of The Mindful Mama Club

Hey there, new mama! First off, let me give you a virtual high-five because you’ve just done something absolutely incredible—brought a little human into the world!

Now, welcome to the fourth trimester, that oh-so-special time when you and your baby are getting to know each other outside the womb. It’s a wild ride, full of joy, challenges, and everything in between.

But don’t worry, you’ve got this—and I’m here to share some tips that helped me survive those early days.

1. Be Kind to Yourself: You Went Through Something Huge!

I can’t stress this enough. You’ve just been through one of the most transformative experiences of your life. Whether you were able to implement all your preferences or if your birth took a few unexpected turns, you’ve done something truly amazing. So, please, be kind to yourself. Your body is healing, your hormones are all over the place, and your emotions might be, too. It’s okay to feel a little off-kilter—that’s all part of the process.

2. If You Don’t Feel Right, Tell Someone

This one is so important. There’s a lot of talk about postpartum depression, but it’s not just that—postpartum anxiety, baby blues, and just feeling overwhelmed are all real and valid experiences. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t hesitate to reach out. Whether it’s to your partner, a friend, or a healthcare professional, talking about how you’re feeling can make a world of difference. Remember, you’re not alone in this and your feelings are always valid. 

3. Talk, Talk, and Talk Some More

Speaking of talking, don’t bottle things up. Whether it’s sharing your birth story, venting about the challenges of breastfeeding, or just expressing how tired you are, let it out. I found that talking to other mums, both online and in person, helped me realise that what I was feeling was normal. Motherhood is a shared experience, and there’s so much comfort in knowing that others are going through the same ups and downs. It can feel like an incredibly lonely place to be, but let’s remember that there are almost 2,000 babies born each day in the UK, that’s one hell of a parenthood community!

4. Carve Out Some “Me” Time

I know this sounds impossible with a newborn attached to you 24/7, but even five minutes to yourself can work wonders to help you reset your mindset. Whether it’s taking a long bath, reading a few pages of a book, or just sitting quietly with a cup of tea, those moments of self-care are essential. It’s okay to ask for help so you can get a little break—you deserve it and it’s going to help you be a better parent.

5. Nourish Your Body

Your body has done something incredible, and now it’s time to nourish it. Lots of water, nutritious food, vitamin rich meals, as much protein as you can stomach and yes, some treats (because let’s be real, balance is key right?) will help you feel more energised and ready to tackle whatever the day throws at you. And remember, it’s not about bouncing back to your pre-baby body—it’s about feeling strong and healthy for yourself and your baby.

Wrapping It Up: Embracing the Journey

The fourth trimester is an incredibly unique and transformative time, filled with its fair share of challenges and triumphs. Remember, it’s okay to feel like you’re on a rollercoaster of emotions—this is all part of the process. By being kind to yourself, seeking support when you need it, and carving out those precious moments of self-care, you’ll find your rhythm as a new mum. 

Nourish your body, nurture your spirit, and lean on your village. You’re doing an amazing job, even on the days when it doesn’t feel that way. As you settle into your new role, trust in your instincts and know that you are more resilient and capable than you ever imagined.

And don’t forget you have just met a whole new person. Someone special, unique and powerful,  and it’s not your baby, it’s you!